Growing up, I was told that one day, in the near future, I would experience “love,” but every time someone tells me this, I just want to ask why every person desires love when it is so often talked about. And it is considered one of the most painful, but also absolutely amazing feelings you can experience. I wondered why I wanted to feel something like that. But the more I thought about it and the more friends had friends, the more I began to want them. And I began to feel hopeless, for myself, that maybe there wasn`t a person destined to be with me. Maybe I was destined to be with myself forever. So walls were built around my heart and the pain seemed to attack me again and again with life`s sweet revenge for the fact that I was perhaps the only person who would never only know the dictionary definition of one of the most excruciating beautiful emotions, but I would never feel the one people say. that he holds the world together. And it tore me apart. But I stopped caring, and I became numb by this dark and dark world around me, filling my own world with darkness, pain, and numbness. Until I simply accepted that all I would know was the dictionary definition of a word so generalized that it didn`t even seem important anymore.
Love will be and always will be misunderstood, but I didn`t know that no one is meant for one person, but that everyone experiences love in the most unexpected way. It was a very long, complicated day, so I was looking for a better way to make it a little more interesting out of curiosity. I presented a challenge to my friends on my contact list and I just asked them to say something about love, yes you read it right, just everything, it was really interesting to hear, what they had to say, I took a few minutes later with the help of this wonderful Google Doc app I collected their thoughts about love and here it is. Mela: Love is selfless, when you love something or someone, you put them first in everything you do or decide. Love is really great, for your love you can travel thousands of miles. You must remember that with love, you are not the only one involved. Without knowing it, you put your life, your heart, in someone else`s hands and said, “Here. Do what you want. When I came across this definition, I realized that almost everyone sees the world in black and white.
A majority of people would agree that these definitions sum up love, that these sentences that seem to constitute a particular word are correct. That there is no in-between, that for most people, it is the heart of love. But they don`t talk about all the important steps in between, that is, before, during, and after you`ve fallen into making this type of drug. Love is a drug, something you become addicted to and if you can`t get it, you go absolutely crazy. Love makes you buy gift for love empty pocket and forget what will happen tomorrow. Love means missing your love on a daily basis, and without it, there is nothing you wanted to do. To love means to consecrate yourself to the One you love eternally and completely. For some, love is something that can mean a plethora of things. Different meanings, different perspectives, different opinions and different experiences. I wanted to know more about love than the basic answer: “Love is just a feeling you develop for someone.” After that, I went out and asked a variety of people of different ages, ethnicities, cultures, and backgrounds. I asked him, which is a simple question for most people, “Can you tell me what your definition of love is?” Each person I asked took a minute to think, followed by a few hmm and uh, and some asked the same question: “Like love for someone or love in general?” My answer has always been “love in general.” Then they explained the best way to explain their definition of love.
These are their answers. It is an infinite and unconditional love of two people who have trouble expressing their feelings. More hmmm. Just like a little boy went to high school at the age of 8. I was surprised to see new faces, all friendly and adorable. The environment was so different from elementary school, but looked fun. After my first day of school, I was on top of the world where I was no longer in elementary school. With such fear, I quickly ate my lunch and dinner and rushed to bed to see the next day. Everyone was surprised by my attitude. The next day came and I was so happy that I bathed earlier than the first day and then went to school.
When I started school, the first year had already started because my home was far from school. The director warned me not to do it again, and I complied. When I immediately entered the classroom, I saw a girl whose identity I did not know, but all I knew was that this girl was a rare pearl. This girl was beautiful and her smile was lovely. Her name was Eniola, which also interested me, because it was also my name. My thoughts were focused on her as I watched her throughout the class. To shorten my moment of happiness, was the siren that indicated the end of the lesson. After that, we went to my class for another subject. She wasn`t in my class and she wasn`t the social type, but I knew I had found true love at a tender age.
Soon after, school was over, but during all this time, I gained nothing in the classrooms after seeing them. On the way home, I blushed all the time and was happy. After a few minutes, I got home, dropped my schoolbag, took a shower and took a nap. When it was time for dinner, my little sister came to wake me up. When I woke up, I first called her name and said, “Eniola !!!,,” and then my sister said, “What`s wrong with you?” When she said that, I got excited and went out to eat. As I ate, I thought only of her, and then my mother said, “Isaac, don`t you want to eat your food?” Then I said, “I`m not hungry, Ma.” Then I left the dining table and went to my task, just as I started the task after a few years, I only saw that I had his name written all over my book. To avoid any embarrassment from my younger sister, I quickly tore up the page I had written and started the task again. While I was doing this, I slept and thought about her and couldn`t finish the task. While everyone is passing by, I try to talk to her at every opportunity, but it always turned out to be in vain because she never responded because of her attitude, I loved her more and more.
I thought one of the reasons I didn`t respond was my attitude because I was the stubborn and boring guy. There was a day when I got her Facebook name and tried to add it, but she never accepted my friend request. I didn`t know the reason for her action, but I thought she hated me, but after several pleas, she agreed, but she finds it very difficult to respond to every message I send her. As a result, my love for her began to grow. Linda: Love is sweet when you get the sweet, but love is bitter when you love someone who doesn`t love you. Love is all about feelings, so feelings for someone can show or represent the percentage that you love someone. Love is when the one you love is sad, you feel hurt. What I love about James, he talked about both sides of the same coin (love), he focused not only on the good side but also on the bitter side and for sure, sometimes it gets chaotic and it`s one of the most interesting and sweetest things in this world, at least that`s what I can say.
